The Moment You Realize You Are the Common Denominator

Have you ever found yourself in the same frustrating situation over and over again? Maybe it’s in relationships—different people, same patterns. Or in your career—different jobs, same struggles. You start to wonder, Why does this keep happening to me?

And then, one day, it hits you: I am the common denominator in all of these experiences.

At first, this realization can feel heavy, even unfair. It’s easier to blame circumstances, luck, or other people. But the truth is, this moment—this awareness—is one of the most powerful shifts you can ever have. Because if you are the common denominator, then you also have the power to change it.

The Stories We Carry

We all operate from a set of subconscious beliefs—stories we’ve picked up from childhood, past experiences, or even society. These stories shape how we see ourselves, what we believe we deserve, and how we show up in the world.

Maybe you learned that love has to be earned, so you over-give in relationships and attract people who take more than they give. Maybe you grew up believing success comes with struggle, so you unconsciously make things harder than they need to be.

Whatever the pattern, it’s not happening to you—it’s happening through you. 

Breaking the Cycle

Realizing that you are the common denominator isn’t about blame—it’s about empowerment. It means that if you’ve been unknowingly creating certain experiences, you can also consciously create something different.

And that starts with awareness.

• What patterns keep repeating in your life?

• What role have you been playing in those experiences?

• What beliefs might be driving those patterns?

When you begin to see the connection between your thoughts, beliefs, and outcomes, you stop feeling like life is happening to you. Instead, you step into the role of creator—intentionally choosing new beliefs, new actions, and new results.

Shifting from Reaction to Creation

One of the most powerful ways to shift these patterns is through subconscious work—because that’s where they were created in the first place.

Hypnotherapy helps you access the deep-rooted beliefs that are running your life, bringing them into the light so they can be rewritten. It allows you to shift from a place of reaction—where life feels out of your control—to a place of creation, where you decide what you want and align your mind, body, and actions with it.

Imagine stepping into relationships where you feel valued and respected. Imagine money, success, and opportunity flowing to you effortlessly. Imagine waking up every day feeling clear, confident, and in control of your life.

It all starts with the moment you take responsibility for your experiences—not with judgment, but with curiosity and power.

Ready to Create a New Reality?

If you’re ready to break the cycle, release old patterns, and step fully into your power, hypnotherapy can help. Let’s work together to uncover what’s been holding you back and rewrite your story in a way that truly serves you.

Book a session with me, Leigh Kubin, and start creating the life you truly want. Visit leighkubin.com to learn more and schedule your session today.